That depends on your definition of “cry it out.” In the traditional sense of putting your baby down and not going back in until the morning, no. Will there be some tears in the process? Absolutely. It’s not realistic to think an infant/child/toddler will never cry. I go over expectations, minimizing tears, and types of cries in my sleep plans so that you’re very prepared and know what to expect without leaving your child completely alone, ever. Your child should be loved and encouraged through the process but remember the more you do, the less your child does and that’s what we are working on changing! Crying tells you to respond to your child and that’s exactly what we will do. That doesn’t mean they won’t struggle with learning this skill. We will set them up to be successful with as little stress to mom or dad as we can!